We always trade what we have for what we want.

0:00You have to be willing to trade [music] the things you love right now for the things you want. And you may not like [music] the price of what you want, but you can't change the price. >> And so there's all this graveling [music] that goes back and forth for younger men of like basically wishing it didn't cost this much time or cost as much failure or cost as much [music] risk in order to get to where they want to go. And so they basically stomp their heels and then, you know, retreat inwards into their basement and video games and whatever else rather than confronting their own inadequacy.