Shared mission + shared values.

0:00guys got married not because you guys were in love. It was like a business transaction. >> We went on our first date and we ended up talking about business for 4 hours. And I didn't like have any romantic anything, but I was like, she's cool. And so I felt myself kind of just like wanting to see her again. I mean, I remember the next day I was like, hey, I'm working all day, want to come work with me? And she said, sure. And so then she just like hung out with me and then we just both worked together. And that was kind of like the vibe of how things started is like, whatever I was doing, I just rather do it with her. And so it was much more companionate. The shared mission and shared values of like, this is what I want to do with my life. She's like, me too. I want to do big And like up to that point, I had definitely dated people who wanted to do big things, but like the types of big things they wanted to do were different than the types of things I wanted to do. And so we weren't mission aligned. When you want to do big things, like what do you have to go through to get there is hard.

0:38And I knew that where I wanted to go, not a lot of people would be able to hang, but like I just knew that I was willing to go through a lot of suffering to get there. And she was too. When I lost everything, I kind of sat her down and was like, like if you leave right now, like I won't blame you. She's like, if I have to sleep with you under a bridge, I will. And she just like was there even though I gave her like an out card.