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- Alex und Leila haben sich über die Dating App Bumble kennengelernt, nicht bei der Arbeit.
- Leila wollte das erste Date wegen Unwohlsein absagen, ist dann aber trotzdem hingegangen.
- Alex urteilte beim ersten Eindruck kurz vorschnell wegen ihrer Tattoos.
- Leila erzählte beim ersten Date, dass sie aus finanziellen Zielen bewusst auf Maniküre verzichtet hatte.
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0:00Yeah. >> How did you How did you guys meet >> Bumble? >> Are you serious? >> Nice. >> Yeah. >> The apps on a dating app. >> Yeah. >> How long How long ago? >> 9 years ago. >> And the And the >> 2016 was the first date in like a boardroom. >> No. [laughter] >> You know what I'm saying? Like where did you guys >> No, we went to uh we went to Froyo cuz I was like >> Oh, that was nice. >> Yeah. She tried to cancel on me um the night before and I was just like well she was like I feel sick. I was like you sound fine. [laughter] I was like you sound fine. and I'll see you tomorrow. Um, and so she shows up and then right as I'm walking up, I'm walking from behind where the Frozen place is and she's got like a sundress on, but she's got these two angel wings on her back tattoo and I was like, "Fuck, like what am I getting into?" Um,
0:44>> cuz of the tattoos. >> Yeah. Yeah. Well, just like specifically like the angel wing tattoos. I was like, "Oh no." >> Yeah. Well, I just like stigma, whatever. I was like, "This could just not be what I'm hoping it to be." like almost like a like a shoulder version of like a [ __ ] stamp or was it Oh, got it. Okay, got it. >> I think equivalent. >> And so we, you know, I'm going in. I was like, I'm trying to get out of here as fast as humanly possible. And so sat down. I was like, you want to just get fro yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo. And she's like this guy's such a dick. And so I was like, you got what you need? Like let's go [laughter] like check out. But like she was cool.
1:14And so we kept talking talking then um and you know we ended up hitting it off and I was like okay I get all this. I was like, "Don't understand the tattoo." And um I was like, "This is going to make me sound like such a dick, but I was like, "You sound so put together." And I was like, "But you're like nerves all chipped." And I was like, "What the [ __ ] is that about >> nails?" >> Yeah. I was like, "They're all >> manual labor [laughter] with an a trainer." Um but it was like I was like, "What's this?" And she was like, she's like, "For the first time in years, I decided not to like get my nails painted cuz I was like have financial goals and I wanted to like save this up." And I She was like, and since that day, she has literally never had her nails not done.
1:52>> Damn, you damn. You hit it on day one. [laughter] >> She was like, I just made this decision to be more financially responsible. I was like, I'll pay for your nails if you need it. Like, I just >> That's a good comeback for cuz that's like a That's like a hard area to hit on a girl. You when their nails are bad, bro, they are like freaking about that [ __ ] But I I like this dynamic, dude. It speaks to me because I think a lot of people when they like analyze relationships they or you know people that they don't know right they're like well where's like all the stuff that I'm used to like the love like you know like this real romance and blah blah blah but when you pull together two people who are like career obsessed
2:28>> that like collaboration is kind of a cool partnership. It's it's very intriguing to me. Like I think it's awesome. >> I think it's super rare. Like I don't see many people who who have that. Um, like I had what I would consider normal traditional relationships for every other relation in my life and so did she. And so this was kind of like a weird thing. Like on our I think our second date, Ila just like looked at me and she was like, >> "I get a lot of friend vibes from you." And I was like, "In my entire life, not a single woman has given me that that feedback." [laughter]
2:56>> Yeah. >> Um, and then and then I fixed that. Um, and so >> what [laughter] does that mean? >> I just like I was like I was just trying to be respectful cuz I liked you. What did you did you take your shirt off like you just did now? Is that how you fixed it? >> I literally I literally just flexed. Um No, but like we just like I don't know. It was It's It's a totally different odd dynamic and that like we just we're really good partners. Like we're partners. That's like the only thing. Like we're really like she's the [ __ ] Like Leila's awesome.
3:24>> Yeah. Like she really is us.