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Was du mitnimmst
- Gegenwind von anderen kann ein Zeichen sein, dass du etwas richtig machst.
- Menschen greifen dich an, weil du sie an unerreichte eigene Ziele erinnerst.
- In der einsamen Phase passt man weder zu alten Freunden noch zur neuen Erfolgsgruppe.
- Lass dich von Kritik nicht zurück in die alte Bequemlichkeit ziehen.
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0:00The push back you are getting is the indicator that you are doing the right thing. It is. And if you can reframe the distaste that you get from other people as the same as that because they're projecting the things that they know they should be doing that you are doing that they're not doing and you remind them of that. And so it's that it's even so even though the mountain that you're climbing is actually a smaller one than the one that you ultimately want to climb, you're actually at the top of their mountain.
0:32And so they start tearing you down. So like that's where the the underdog story that we said at the very beginning of this with the quote which is like on the way up they root for you and then when you're at the top they try and tear you down because you remind them of the dreams that they couldn't accomplish, right? And so you quitting drinking or you staying in to work on your side hustle or your project or the business that you want to launch the podcast that might be you might be at the top of their mountain and so they are tearing you down because now you remind them that they haven't done it and it's purely a projection of them onto you and has nothing to do with you and that I hope that that comforts someone because what you said I think is like if you're going through that right now and like and I promise you every single person you wants to do something with their life and has done something with their life, has gone through the exact chapter that you're going through. And it's the lonely chapter. It's the chapter where you you're you don't fit in with your own friends, but you don't have the outcomes yet to fit into a new group of friends. And you're doing this thing. You're consuming content on the internet. You're you're doing these free tutorials online to try and figure out how to set up a podcast and where do I host this thing? And then there and and and you're going through this and you're like, am I is this even worth it?
1:38Because you have no signs of success, right? But if there's anything that you can take away from what we're saying right now is that the sign of success is the hate that you get along the way. And what you can't do is bend the knee to their hate and fit back into the conformity because it's comfortable and it's warm because like in the Matrix when Trinity opens the door when when Neo's about to go take the red pill and he wants to get out of the car, she says, "No, you've been down that road and you know exactly where it leads and I know that's not where you want to be."
2:08And then he closes the door. Like right now, this moment that you're going through is Trinity opening the door and being like, "You could go back." But then you'd have to remember exactly what the reason was that you decided not to go out to begin with because you listen to this podcast and you consume this content, you're like, I can [ __ ] do more than this. Like because you are starting to live in some of that hell where you look in the mirror and you're like, I can do more. And you start to see the person that you could be and you're like, this does start to feel like hell. The reason that it's uncomfortable and the reason that I do have sympathy for the people that see this is ignorance in some regards is bliss. As soon as you begin to posit an ideal,
2:46>> you then begin to compare yourself to that ideal. >> Yeah. >> And the gap in potential between you and the person that you could have been begins to get more stark. And even the slightest glimmer of, wow, I can I can read a book or follow a course or listen to a podcast and then work really really hard on one thing and change the thermodynamics of my mind. Change the texture of my own existence dayto day because I worked at a thing and now I understand nutrition. You know, I know kung fu like I I understand nutrition or I can I understand how to sleep well.
3:24Okay. As soon as you know that sleep is important and what you need to do to do it, every single night of bad sleep that you have is on you. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Because before you had the excuse that you're ignorant. >> Yeah. >> And guess what? >> Now you don't.