“If you’d give all your money up to be 20 again, then why did you sacrifice your 20s for money?

0:00There's no perfect way to live [music] your 20s. You either live them up and become an underskilled 30-year-old or you work them up [music] and become an under-lived 30-year-old. You just have to figure out which you'd rather be, accept [music] the trade-offs, and know that there are no do-overs. >> There are more people that I have met in my life who [music] are dissatisfied by their live-it-up 20s than dissatisfied by their work-it-up [music] 20s. Because most of the time in your 20s, you have no idea what you want. But [music] knowing what you need to do to work and move ahead is fairly straightforward.

0:31And so you can take the known and then along the way >> [music] >> gain perspective on what are the things that are actually important to you in your life. And you may find [music] out often that there are far fewer of those things than you really originally thought. Because what you thought live [music] them up in your 20s was was actually to quote live up your mom's dream >> [music] >> or your friends' dreams to then only get to your 30s and realize you didn't live it up [music] and you also didn't work it up. And now you have neither.