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0:00So what you're asking me to do is to define success for you. >> Yeah, kind of. Yes. >> Should I make a lot of money? Should I get better? >> There are some there are some questions that are eternal and highly personal. >> So I'll give you an example. Should I push through this hard time or should I pivot? >> That's an eternal question and it's always personal. Should I take this risk on? Uh sorry. Should I should I invest or should I consume? If you never consume, you get to the end of your life and you enjoyed nothing, all the spoils, you just die and then it goes to somebody else. If you consume your entire life, then you never have anything for a rainy day.
0:38>> And so almost all of these eternal questions are dichotoies to be managed rather than problems to be solved. >> And so >> the the question that you have of like what is a successful businessman is very much what do I define success for me in the game of business as? Because even if you're like, I want to be the best business person. >> Who do you think is the best business person?
1:06>> That's a good question. Who do you think is the best business person? >> Probably Elon. Okay. Is he >> now Elon doesn't see his kids that much? >> He has four kind of wivesish. >> No real right. Some people the thing is is that there are multiple games that are concurrent >> and you will always trade >> points in one game for points in another because we have a fixed amount of time. >> Yeah.
1:32>> And so the question that you'll have to answer and obviously you're 20 now so it makes sense that you'd be minmaxing more on money. That's fine. Um is that I would encourage you to try and win at the game of life and business is a component. It is one of the games you play >> because what you don't want is like if you win so hard in business, you will absolutely get to the end of your life and be like, I think I missed some things.
1:56>> And I think what many people want, which is why they are dissatisfied, is they want the spoils of all of them and the cost of none. >> But we always make trade-offs. And those trade-offs are highly individual. >> And so people will criticize you no matter what if you just live in a way that's different than them. Mhm. >> And so you just and the thing is is you will be wishy-washy on what that goal is until you make it for you
2:25>> because then you can look with a lot of certainty and say I totally agree with that that is amazing for you. It wouldn't work for me but I'm happy that you're crushing it >> by your standards. [Music] >> I get it. >> Cool. >> Cool. Understandable. >> All right. And I also want to like if I can give you one piece of permission is that you can change the target. >> You mean >> what's success for you today when you're 20 will be different than what it is when you're 30
2:53>> and it will be different than what it is. Right. It'll be different than when you're 40. >> And I would not say that when you're 30 and you realize that you have a different target that you somehow lost. It's just you're pursuing something else now. And that's okay. >> Cool. >> Makes sense. Totally makes sense. Appreciate you, man.