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People wish for other people’s lives but not for their sacrifices.
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0:00Loneliness is the price of ambition. Pleasure is the price of discipline. Novelty [music] is the price of loyalty. Discretion is the price of trust. And so, so many people want the benefits of these [music] traits, but can't afford the cost or the price. They're not willing to be discreet, but they want someone to trust them. They can't hold someone's secrets. They want somebody to be loyal to them at home, but then they want the thrill of the new relationship. They want the benefits of discipline, of consistency, but they can't trade the pleasure in the moment. They want ambition, but they're not willing to pay the price of being lonely, of being the exception. They want fame, but then all of a sudden, they are startled when they realize that they have no privacy. And so, each of these things are tradeoffs.
0:44Each of these ideals are not binary. It's not discretion, it's how much discretion you have. It's not novelty, it's how much novelty. It's not pleasure, it's how much pleasure. It's not loneliness, it's how long. And it's not hard work, it's how hard do you have to work? And how long do you have to work? And if you're not willing to make the trade, fine, but don't about …