Find someone who truly accepts you for who you are.

0:00She said, "I'm never going to try and change you." To me, that was very freeing. It was just pure acceptance. If you can find somebody who just accepts you, like truly isn't like, "Hey, you should dress this way. Hey, you should cut your hair like this." There's big implications in that statement. It's I don't care what you want for you. I want you to look like this for me. You could make the argument, well, I'm the one who looks at you all day and you want me to be attracted to you, etc. But like, in my opinion, I think it works better if you are attracted to that person's natural state. If the way they act, the way they dress, the way they are is someone that you are attracted to, then I think that's the game. I think you've won.