Warum Andersartigkeit deine eigentliche Stärke ist

0:00What's the most un-cringe thing, right? Is you being you. I'm pretty sure that I turned away plenty of girls. They're like, "This guy is successful, he's in shape, uh you know, decent-looking, strikingly handsome." Um but they'd meet me and they'd be like, "What a [ __ ] weirdo." But the thing is it's like they like and I remember I had um there were so many girls that I was like, "You're pretty and I I I just don't care at all."

0:37And so I like I just I wanted someone who got my peculiarities, who was like not only like accepting of them but just like down for it. And so I I walked through most of my And to be fair, as a side note, for anybody who like wants to quote be exceptional, you're going to be different and people are going to think you're weird and like you might not get second dates. But real real, you're not going to want the second date too because they're not like you. Like when you get unplugged, you're like, "Oh wow, everyone's a sheep. This is weird." And you just go on a zillion first dates to be like, "Yet another one. Yet another one." And every once in a while you see a glimmer in someone who they're like, "Oh, you think for yourself. Like you can make your own conclusions." I remember when Leila and I went on our first date, we were we were we went at a at a frozen yogurt store. And so of course I'm like, "So you know how they make their money here, right?" I was like, "So these things weigh this, they charge this per ounce."

1:25And I was like breaking this whole thing down. And she was like, "Oh yeah, and they do this and this." And I was like, "Wait, you see this, too? Like you It wasn't like just like Alex is talking about business." >> of the [ __ ] sixth sense or whatever it is. >> I was so excited because normally I would just have to like talk I'd talk about the stuff that at least I like to talk about cuz then it would pass the time. Not good dating strategy. Maybe >> entertain myself. Yeah. But then she also like talked about the stuff and I was like, "Holy shit."

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