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Was du mitnimmst
- Ein guter Freund ist jemand, bei dem du am wenigsten Filter brauchst.
- Mit echten Freunden kannst du auch einfach schweigen, ohne die Stille füllen zu müssen.
- Priorisiere Menschen, bei denen du dich sicher fühlst, wirklich du selbst zu sein.
- Ein guter Partner bringt mehr von dir zum Vorschein, statt dich zu verwässern.
- Authentisch bist du, wenn du dich so verhältst, als gäbe es keine Strafe dafür.
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0:00A friend was recently asked who his best friend is. He said he wasn't sure. It's a bit of a rare question after age 12. So, the question was asked differently, who do you have the least amount of filter with when you're around them? >> Another good question is who can you sit in silence with and not have to fill it? >> Mhm. >> Even if there isn't a single person that wins, these are the people who you should prioritize spending your time with. We all feel the compulsion to change ourselves to fit in. We adjust our behavior, words, nature, everything in an attempt to be liked, validated, and accepted. The more people who make it feel safe for you to truly be yourself around them, the more confidence you'll have to be that person every day. And I feel like that's a correlate to the you you partner should be someone that helps you become more of you, not dilute.
0:45>> They should be salt >> to bring out the flavor. >> Yeah. Obviously, analogies have limit Yeah. analogies have limits, but like >> salt more of you. And so you brought up authentic. Authenticity as I define it from a behavior perspective is how you behave if you have no if you have no risk of punishment. >> Mhm. >> And so what would you do if you could not get punished?
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