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Was du mitnimmst
- Sag sofort Bescheid, wenn dir jemand etwas nicht Genehmes tut, sonst lernt die Person das falsche Verhalten nicht ab.
- Je kürzer die Zeit zwischen unerwünschtem Verhalten und deiner Reaktion, desto besser trainierst du das Verhalten.
- Ein kurzer, klarer Satz reicht schon, um eine Grenze sofort und direkt zu setzen.
Volltranskript
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0:00If you want someone to treat you differently, you have to first address it as soon as possible when they do something against it because you want to keep the latency between when they do something you don't like and when you tell them about it as short as you can so that you can actually train the behavior. Even something as simple as like someone says, "Hey, get over here." I mean, if I'm sitting on the couch and someone says, "Hey, get over here." I'm going to say, "Don't ever talk to me like that." I'm not your dog. You're like, "Whoa, I mean, dude, no need to have a short fuse." It's like, "I don't have that either." I just don't want you to talk to me that way. And then it's weird and silent and awkward
0:28>> [music] >> and then they need to make a decision.