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You want to keep the latency between when they do something you don’t like, and when you tell t

Alex says if you want someone to change how they treat you, call it out the moment it happens instead of waiting, since a short gap between the behavior and the correction is what actually trains it. He uses a get over here example to show the response.

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  • If you want someone to treat you differently, you have to first address it as soon as possible when they do something against it because you want to keep the latency between when they do something you don't like and when you tell them about it as short as you can so that you can actually train the behavior.
  • Even something as simple as like someone says, "Hey, get over here." I mean, if I'm sitting on the couch and someone says, "Hey, get over here." I'm going to say, "Don't ever talk to me like that." I'm not your dog.
  • You're like, "Whoa, I mean, dude, no need to have a short fuse." It's like, "I don't have that either." I just don't want you to talk to me that way.
  • >> [music] >> and then they need to make a decision.

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    Abschnitt 1 If you want someone to treat you differently, you have to first address it as soon as possible when they do something against it because you want to keep the latency between when t
  2. 0:28
    Abschnitt 2 >> [music] >> and then they need to make a decision.

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0:00If you want someone to treat you differently, you have to first address it as soon as possible when they do something against it because you want to keep the latency between when they do something you don't like and when you tell them about it as short as you can so that you can actually train the behavior. Even something as simple as like someone says, "Hey, get over here." I mean, if I'm sitting on the couch and someone says, "Hey, get over here." I'm going to say, "Don't ever talk to me like that." I'm not your dog. You're like, "Whoa, I mean, dude, no need to have a short fuse." It's like, "I don't have that either." I just don't want you to talk to me that way. And then it's weird and silent and awkward

0:28>> [music] >> and then they need to make a decision.