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0:00I don't think that's true. I think that everyone has a personal brand that is unique and different. But everyone doesn't look that way because they conform to what what they think everyone else wants them to look like. And so the fact that they are boring and they resent the fact that they're boring is because they are living out reflections of what what they think everyone else wants them to do. And so all you have to do is start at square zero and be like, "What do I want?" Because I realized after I got out of gym launch that I mean I dressed a certain way for gym launch because I was the head of an entire community of gyms and it made sense for me to dress that way because I needed to I needed to look that part right. But when I was at ground zero and I was like okay what do I want? And I thought about it for a long time and I was like well what would 85year-old me wear? I was like 85-year-old me would wear probably the most functional thing he could wear cuz he doesn't care what his shoes look like. He doesn't care what his shirt looks like. He just wants to be comfortable. And so I just started trying all the things that I could possibly imagine for shoes, shorts, hats, whatever to find the thing that I was like, you know what, this is the most comfortable and this allows me to do the most things in the most rooms without changing. And so people then are like, man, that's so unique. But it it was actually just saying if I were to if everyone was gone from existence, what would I do? What would my work be?

1:15Right? How would I dress? Who would I date? That's a real one. Who would I date if no one else told me what they thought about it? Maybe someone different than you're dating right now. And if the person that you would want to date isn't the person you're dating right now, and the person that you would want to date would never date you, then maybe rather than dating these mediocre Mollies or mediocre Matts, you take the period of time, you go on the untraden path, you have people reject you and say, "Oh, you're not coming out tonight. You're going to the gym again, right? Oh, I can't eat with us, right? She's on a she's on a diet again. How long you going to stick with this one?" Right? Because the thing is is that the stick to it in muscle itself is something that you work on. Because if you started diets and you failed and you started working out and you failed, if you just make it longer every time before you fail, you're still making progress and you're still doing something that everyone else isn't doing.

2:02>> Yeah. >> And that is the biggest meta indicator that you possibly can is if if because everyone sucks. Like so many people are mediocre. Like half of the United States is in debt. They don't even have a do like they they're they're negative net worth. And so like just saying different than that like the bar isn't high. We talked about this. Dude, go for it. I know. I know what you're just go for it. >> The bar has never been set lower to separate yourself out from the pack.

2:29Never been set lower. And this is for, you know, the black pill internet black pill. By the way, >> it is supposed to be one step beyond the red pill to see that life and dating largely for men is uh uh there's an uncomfortable reality that if you aren't blessed with the right physical attractiveness, status or money uh LSM, looks, LMS, looks, money status, if you don't have the right prerequisites, you're you're basically doomed. You're a genetic dead end and eat

2:57>> Um >> is that a bad thing? according to them. >> I So, okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna zoom out real quick and then I I I know I know we're gonna go on this. So, if we're looking at a species, right, let's look at deer, right? A lot of people have deer in their backyard, right? >> Well, what is natural is that one buck inseminates 50 dough and he competes with all the other deer. And the reason for that is because then it actually allows the quote best genes to proliferate. Now, best is determined by what actually continues continues on, right?

3:32>> Getting perilously close to eugenics here, Alex. >> Well, I'm just talking about I'm just talking about deer, [laughter] right? I'm just talking about dear. If anyone I'm just talking about dear. I'm not saying this is what it should be, but the the the point that that I wanted to make was not, I think, where everyone thinks I'm going with this, which is that a lot of the, you know, the black whatever you just said, right, black pill, um, I would imagine are casting an expectation on the universe that it shouldn't be this way.