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Was du mitnimmst
- Worauf man mit dem Finger der Schuld zeigt, dem gibt man die Macht über das eigene Leben.
- Wer scheitert, um es jemand anderem heimzuzahlen, schadet am Ende sich selbst am meisten.
- Erst wenn man aufhört, andere für die eigenen Ergebnisse verantwortlich zu machen, übernimmt man wirklich Kontrolle.
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0:00What offends you controls you. Whatever you point your finger of blame towards is what also you point your power towards. Meaning we talked about excuses earlier. I can't do it because insert X. Insert X is the thing that has power over your life. And I remember when I realized this was that I had this belief that I would never be able to be in a long-term committed relationship because my mother had hurt me as a child. I didn't get enough hugs. Who gives a Whatever. But I realized that by using that excuse and by saying it's her fault I'm broken. It's her fault I can't trust people. It's her fault I can't love anybody. By by saying that over and over again, all I did was I said my mother controls how my love life will go. Oo, heavy real. Well, I don't want her to have control over how I choose to love or not love or how how content I get in a relationship or anything like that. So, I actively had to say maybe all these things happened, maybe they didn't. Also, who cares? Me. I care. I'm the one who's affected by this. And what's crazy about this, it's kind of a weird thing with like parents is that you think by hurting yourself, you get back at them for hurting you. And you do hurt them when you hurt yourself, but you hurt you more at some point. And this is like this is like super real.
1:23Let's say that you were parented tough, whatever that means for you. You had lots of bad things happen, okay? And it was probably because you were a child trying to deal with the world without the skills of dealing with the world as an adult. But you had these things happen, right? And on some level, you might believe that you becoming successful, you making it work, validates the way that you were parented. And so you have this conflict where you're like,"Well, I don't want them to think that they did a good job by me being successful."
1:53And so then you want to keep not being successful to prove to them and to hurt them for hurting you. And you stay there as long as you want them to control you. And so the day that you choose to control yourself is the day that you choose to divorce your results from the very viable reasons that you have to not win.
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