This works great for networking too

0:00Here's how to get any girl's phone number. All you do, after having at least a two-second exchange with them, is saying, "Hey, I got a jet, but would it be totally overstepping for me to exchange digits with you, that way we can continue this conversation later?" When you do it that way, instead of saying, "Hey, can I get your number?" you're asking them to say no rather than asking them to say yes. And when you ask people to say no, they feel safe, they feel like they're in control. And so she says, "No, that that wouldn't be overstepping." Because we're asking them about whether it's overstepping, not whether we can ask for the number. So the question is changing, which is why you actually get the implied yes.