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- Der Spruch 'muss schön sein' ignoriert, wie hart die Arbeit hinter einem Erfolg wirklich war.
- Wer Erfolg mühelos aussehen lässt, verstärkt oft den falschen Eindruck, es sei einfach gewesen.
- Auch die schwierigen Phasen im Leben werden im Rückblick oft romantisiert, obwohl sie sich damals furchtbar anfühlten.
- Wer gerade in einer harten Phase steckt, weiß oft nicht, dass später noch Erfolg kommen kann.
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0:00the world around you like fame like your evidence will change how people treat you >> independent of how you feel about it. >> Well, this is why the must be easy must be nice is so flawed because what you're saying is I see the outcomes and I have no idea of the difficulty of the inputs. I have absolutely no idea what barriers you need to get over. You could be you could find it 99 out of 100 difficult to be patient and yet you are. Must be nice for you. You've got that patience, Jean.
0:32You go eat [ __ ] Eat [ __ ] You have no idea how hard it is for people to do the things that they do. And the people that make it look easy in some regards contribute to this problem. Like I and this is why I really love a massive fan of of a lot of your work. And I think that one of the reasons is that it's so honest and and self aacing about the challenges and about the steps that you have to get through. And because the journey is relatively well narratized and you can you can track it step by step and you've created a kind of a cohesive timeline of how all of this stuff worked. There is a point along specifically your journey, but hopefully mine and other people's too where people can inject themselves and say, "Oh, I'm at that bit. I'm the 15-year-old that I'm at that bit. I resent my parents. I've just lost all my money. I I feel like I need to, you know, like you have every different problem that you can encounter in life is present in Alex's timeline.
1:30And I think that that's really important. I think this this is one of the I would say this is a criticism that I have about some of the personal development, self-rowth, and a lot of the business advice as well. Even the bad times are romanticized and they're not [ __ ] romantic. Like, it feels >> like hell. It feels like [ __ ] to do the thing, to fail, to not feel like anybody cares about you, to not even know that there's going to be glory in retrospect.
2:02>> Yeah. It feels despondent and destitute and sad and alone.