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Drawing boundaries changes the dynamic of friendships.
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- Like, will you help me move out?" I'd be like, "No, I won't, but I'll give you $200 if you need [music] money to pay someone to like to fill my friend duty." I want to make sure that we're cool.
- [music] Quickly someone will start to adjust and be like, "I'm not sure if I should ask Alex cuz he's probably just going to say no and offer me money.
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Abschnitt 1 There's just lines and boundaries.
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0:00There's just lines and boundaries. As soon as you draw them, it changes the dynamic of a friendship. [music] If someone's like, "Hey, man, I'm I'm moving out. Like, will you help me move out?" I'd be like, "No, I won't, but I'll give you $200 if you need [music] money to pay someone to like to fill my friend duty." I want to make sure that we're cool. And if that person gets all upset about that, then like they're probably not going to be friends with me for a very long anyways. [music] Quickly someone will start to adjust and be like, "I'm not sure if I should ask Alex cuz he's probably just going to say no and offer me money.