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Abschnitt 1 A lot of victims aren't going to want to hear this, but if you want to feel better, blame other people.
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0:00A lot of victims aren't going to want to hear this, but if you want to feel better, blame other people. If you want to get better, blame yourself. Blame feels good [music] in the moment, but it takes away everything from you in the long run. When you own your outcomes, you gain [music] freedom because you now have power. When you blame others, you give that power to them because you say, "They're the ones who are in control of my life, not me." You might [music] be 100% justified in the fact that it isn't your fault. And now what? Leila says this thing, and I love it. She says, "It might not be your fault, but it's still your …