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You can both wish someone well and not want to spend time with them.
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- Why do people get so weird about keeping relationships that don't serve them?
- They would better be served with people who want the same things as them.
- It's like, "Yeah, Sandra's been like all over the place lately, and she's like, I don't know, drinking a little bit too much." "Sandra, you've been all over the place lately." If you do that, I promise you, you'll either have better relationships or you'll be done with this Mickey Mouse of not even being in a real relationship, not wanting to confront reality.
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0:00Why do people get so weird about keeping relationships that don't serve them? The people who we're surrounded with when we grow up, it's very unlikely, just from a population standpoint, that they're going to be great. So, it makes sense that you change your friends over time. They would better be served with people who want the same things as them. The way you are a kind is that you tell the truth. Do you know when you talk about somebody behind their back? Just say it to them. It's like, "Yeah, Sandra's been like all over the place lately, and she's like, I don't know, drinking a little bit too much." "Sandra, you've been all over the place lately." If you do that, I promise you, you'll either have better relationships or you'll be done with this Mickey Mouse of not even being in a real relationship, not wanting to confront reality. Because you may have a shot at getting them to realize that they're not on the path that they wanted to be on. Because you were friends with them at some point.
0:40And so, either your goals have changed or theirs have.