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0:01And to be clear, guilt means that you broke your own rules and shame means you broke other people's rules. And those things are only useful after you had a bad behavior, right? As long as they get you to change your behavior for the better. Those two emotions which come as the result of breaking your own rules or breaking other people's rules are effective for changing behavior if you let them help you change your behavior for the better.
0:28You just simply feeling bad for the sake of feeling bad and not changing your behavior serves no one. It serves no purpose.