How Do Men Become More Desirable?

0:00How do you get a top tier girl? Number one, get in shape. >> Yeah. >> Number two, get rich. Number three, don't be a dick. >> Strongly, strongly, stronging recommend for young guys, like for the love of God, get in shape. It'll never be easier. You'll never have more time. I had one of my sales guys who I said, dude, I don't see you at the gym. And he said, you know, I'm just really busy. And I just like looked at him and I was like, you will never have more time and less responsibility than you do now. So, I kind of used the James Clear thing. I said, "Hey, if you can't make it work now, accept that you're never going to be in shape for the rest of your life."

0:30He was like, >> "Whoa." I was like, "Think about it. >> Rid yourself of the design." >> Yeah. I was like, "You're just never going to be in shape." He was like, "Well, I mean that." I was like, "So, do it or don't, but stop wanting it." All humans at ideal body weight and normal levels of musculature are almost all attractive. And so, like, just don't have that be a constraint for you. Like, don't have it be a negative at the very least, right? The rich thing is more professor Jalloway said this. It's more about the signal that you have the ability to gain resources more than having them. If you think about trust fund kid now there is the element of having money for sure there are girls who just want the money but if you compare that to the young hungry guy I don't know if they win in a headto head.

1:12So get in shape signal that you are ambitious and that you plan on pursuing whatever it is that you're going after. And then finally it's just don't be a jerk. Like I'm not saying you have to be like, you know, the world's the sweetest whatever, but just don't be a dick.