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We Did A Divorce Course
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- I could see somebody who didn't know that assuming that if I don't want to talk to you when you get back, you don't love me.
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Abschnitt 1 The first thing that Layla and I did when we were got married is that we went through a divorce course cuz we're like well shoot inversion, right?
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Abschnitt 2 Probably not.
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Abschnitt 3 >> [music] >> if I said something and there's two ways of taking it, a bad way and a good way, I meant the good way.
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0:00The first thing that Layla and I did when we were got married is that we went through a divorce course cuz we're like well shoot inversion, right? We're like well let's just find out all the reasons that people get divorced and let's handle all of those things now. What are the reasons? Money's a big one, kids are a big one, and then a lot of it is actually really tactical preferences. Like when I come home from a long day of work do I want you to then unload all of your day's, you know, woes on me?
0:22Probably not. She learned to just give me space. Like I usually just want to be left alone for a minute to basically let the dust settle on my head so that I can be, you know, fully present for her. I could see somebody who didn't know that assuming that if I don't want to talk to you when you get back, you don't love me. And so it's really just dissecting these issues and saying instead of saying like you hate me or extrapolating this to our relationship forever and always just as a preference in behavior and rounding up. I call it rounding up, which is like
0:53>> [music] >> if I said something and there's two ways of taking it, a bad way and a good way, I meant the good way. We're married. I love you.